I have noticed that people unwittingly get judgemental easily. They never try to infer their judgment can create various quandary in the life of other people. Sometimes their conclusion or verdict can establish those perspectives that are enough to crush the future plans of, that person, who is looking forward with certain aspirations.

 I would like to share an incident. He was a student  in class 12th. He had a dream to be an army officer., I got an idea that how passionate he was for his ambition. During the conversation, he used to tell me the process and procedures that he had to go through to become a part of his favorite pursuit. I guessed that he had gathered almost all the requisite information, which a person  should have, to be the part of armed forces. One day he was sitting  alone in dejection and very depressed 

  He was completely heartbroken I asked him the reason for his sadness and whatever was told it was heart rendering. He told me that one of his acquaintances discouraged him by saying that neither his efficiency, skills physique were according to the parameters of the forces nor he was so hardworking 🏢  to make things possible for himself, this goal therefore could never be achieved. I was so puzzled to hear all this. I wanted to know who was he? By whom had he been given the right to pass  this useless decision. This judgely verdict of a common man changed completely the way of thinking of a boy, who was a bright aspirant. He was made to realize that he could not do this it was not for him to do. I asserted then from this, the existence of energy   of the person got down even comes to an end. He started to believe he didn't have the capacity to gain all this. I do feel it should not be like this. After a long period of counseling the boy got back to his ultimate goal. He started with a high spirit, it was enough to realize his dream in reality. Now he is a diligent, hard-working and honest, officer in the armed forces.

 It usually happens as we lead a normal life every day and dreams, that make ourselves move  ahead, It all ends up before they even begin. Due to those statements that are made by the different people  indifferently, can create havoc in one's life., but they least bother it. If they don't worry about our spirits then the question arises why should we take their statements seriously, we always move ahead with confidence and conviction.

 If you want to reach the apex of achievements then you have to think about going one step  ahead from the peak. It is very obvious if you want to attain the top of success then certainly we have to think a little further than that. Before making any attempt you people should shun an idea  of thinking it's consequences, loss, and profits because it will make you feel you can not do it or it is not your thing to do., if you begin to communicate with these people  they will make fun of you, just ignore them and keep moving  forward  and no Need to pay attention to these people and their useless statements,


 If you will remain in utter confusion, how it can be done? Will, I will be able to succeed in this venture,? Now is the time to take a pledge that you can do it and you will.   If you will remain in utter confusion, that how it can be done? Will, I will be able to succeed in this venture,? Now is the time to take a pledge that you can do it and you will. That's why I, from this, not only the existence of energy  of the person boosts up but the negativity also comes to an end.