Sometimes it happens to all of us,  we are unable to figure out those sentiments that are increasing our sadness. Why do we get upset? Do you know? Why does it happen? I would like to tell you the reason because all of us try to find out not only the cause but also the solutions from the outside. 

Now tell me if you are short-tempered then trivial issues can become big or not, if your answer is positive, then you will certainly become part of a scuffle. Here your short temperament is paving way for your indulgence in the dispute when the reason is within you, tell how can the solutions be located outside? Anybody can tell me, why does this situation occur? 

I think we all know the truth about our decencies and indecencies but we never like to accept it. A person knows very well, the reason for any mishappening lies within but they keep pretending about their ignorance, as we all are familiar with the facts, but never accept because it is convenient to blame others rather than ratify your faults with dignity. 

Last weekend I got a call from one of my friends, she told me that she wanted to leave that accommodation,  it was very surprising because only a few days back she shifted there and again she was asking for another place. it was shocking 

I was unable to hold myself back in asking, why she had wanted to shift as it was already known to both of us that it was difficult to find accommodation on such short notice. 

I knew her very well so certain clues are already there in my mind, I know that lot of people are there who get habitual to blaming others for any kind of action, but if the action is wrong then it becomes a compulsion. 

My friend was one of them. Then  I decided to go to her place. As I was expecting, when I reached she started with a bang, she got problems with her landlady she further told me that last night she had forgotten to switch off the light on the entrance and the next morning she was scolded by the landlady. 

I asked her please, let me know, "How did you talk to her"  She started “ I discussed all the complexities that I had gone through this week, and poured it, on her in the form of censuring,”  I asked her, before taking this accommodation certain terms and conditions should have been signed, had she signed? and as for as, I had remembered the things had been already mentioned then why she was making such hue and cry? 

Only one sentence had been told by that lady “Never forget to switch off the light” Not a big deal at all. Now  I would like to tell you why does it exactly happen? Actually, in today’s world, it has been noticed that people are not ready to ignore even the ordinary and simple things. 

If you have been commented in the morning and the person leaves but the negativity of that argument continues within you,  the whole day you keep talking to yourself and negativity not only gets thrive everywhere but also clasps you in its arms. The same thing happened to my friend too. 

Now the question arises, why do people get scared, to look within themselves? I would like to say, believe me,  It is done purposely, because the words they use to keep censuring others all the time, now they know if they look within them, the worst will be found over there. 

Because people do not have the guts to face the realities of life, they waste their time thinking, about how to change others accordingly. 

Even they don’t understand the worth of their thoughts and if they try to change or start working to change their way of thinking it will certainly become a service to mankind. Any kind of negativity, anxiety, sadness, anguish and agony do exist around us because these are within us and we are not taking any preventive measures so the desired results can not be anticipated. 

Let me know how many of you always look up to the kind of modifications or transformation that is anticipated.

The mission we are supposed to take is that we should try to come out from the shell of a double standard if we don't try to break it at the right time it will get harder but when we start enjoying being in the shell because it can hide our real image, then it gets hardest.  

Even the positive vibes may get fail to penetrate this shell the most important part is our thought process will suffer a lot. it is our responsibility to fix it and let it should not transpire like this. Our humanity can be at stake.

It is better to accept the truth about yourself, if things are good then keep enhancing them, if they are not, keep trying or working to get it better.

Work on your strength rather than weakness