I would like to ask you a question and an honest answer is also expected from all of you how many of you believe that a person who appreciates the importance of self-respect can never like to depend on anybody else.

 I feel if you develop the habit of taking the help of others on all the big or small issues of life. Then one day you will realize that gradually you are not only losing the power of resolving issues but your self-confidence is also at stake. 

The development of this kind of habit works as a big blow on our personality, when we begin to renounce the importance of being an individual we should not forget that we must have our thought process to realize the validity of self-esteem. After losing self-respect a big void will be created within you, and the journey of dependency upon others is commenced from then and there. 

I think this confusion regarding your individuality is created when you find yourself unable to estimate the worth of being yourself. It is very difficult to make that person 👭 understand the significance of a high spirit who wants to wrap himself under the cover of low vitality. 

Because nobody can help you out from this situation when you have decided to surrender, your mindset and the thought process can not be changed until you do not make up your mind to fight back. 

If anyone stops working on his drawbacks he/she will suffer a great loss and the way of taking things may create many obstacles in the path of change and modifications. In this whole process, you can not only lose your self-respect but your self-confidence also. 

Those who are feeling that how anybody can lose both the aspects of life simultaneously. I would like to clarify their doubts, self-confidence and self-respect are part of attitude the skills and capability decide your sense of control in life. 

If you wish to recognize your inner strength and weaknesses you should have faith in yourself. If you don’t hold a positive approach and perspective then it is very difficult to get effective results in adverse situations. It will happen due to a lack of self-confidence. 

Now we all can realize the fact that both these things(self-respect and self-confidence) are interrelated if one is getting low other will be affected in the same way and vice-versa. From birth to the grave during our growing years, we keep learning 🎓 from our observation, experiences and through different modes of learning and all these things help us to develop a certain kind of attitude in life, 

Those who have got good observations, experiences and learning, their spirits remain high and the people whose experiences and observations are not good or negative, start feeling inadequate in their spirit. 

At the same time, the thing that affects the self-respect is always different from person to person 👭 so many reasons are there when a person loses his self-respect there might be a lot of undesirable reasons like traumatic childhood, broken relationships, health issues it can be physical and mental, image consciousness these are the factors which affect most of the time. I feel the people who get affected are unable to deal with their issues ⚠️. 

They always look around for help or support without realizing the importance of self-confidence if they remain confident about their vision and mission then nothing in this world 🌍 can cease the path of self-respect and self-reliant

If you don’t check the habit of expecting support from others all the time, one day you will be no more than a parasite. It can be easily understood that parasites never do anything good 👍 neither to themselves nor to society because the level of their confidence gets shattered just like a glass broken into pieces neither it can be accumulated nor it might be made again. 

 At this point, they feel that the power of realization and understanding has lost its meaning 😏 .

 I would like to suggest that try to overhaul one thing in your mind very clearly, if you do not give importance to yourself then how can you expect anybody else to do so? Tell me, is it possible? 

The thing even you are incapable to think of yourself, then why should other people feel, that you deserve this. 

In lack of self-respect and confidence, various negative impacts might be visible, in your personality, in the form of anger, agony, dejection, and dissatisfaction, and it can open the doors of rejection from society and your survival will be at risk. 

Because the pain of humiliation can never be ignored it can strike deep down in your heart ❤️ the frustration due to different kinds of lacking, can make you a puppet in the hands of others.

 When a person gets a chance to use another person then he/she will try to make full use of this advantage. It is an old tendency of the people to rule 🚷 others. 

So always focusing on the word “self” like self-reliance, self-respect and self-support will boost morale and pave way for the better possibilities.  

The path you choose might be full of thorns and barriers but you have to keep striving for the ultimate tasks of life. You need only one thing that is, self-confidence it can help you to fulfil even the herculean tasks. 

History is full of this kind of rampant instances. Who, can ever forget the self-confidence of our father of nation Gandhi Ji whose non-violence movement made a mind-blowing impact, on the freedom struggle of India. 

How the influence and effort of that man can be ignored who led several successful campaigns during the Revolutionary Wars. He attained remarkable prominence during the French Revolution now anyone can easily guess, that I am talking about the great general of his time  Napoleon Bonaparte.