What is kindness? How it can be felt by both the giver and the receiver as well? If a person is kind enough to mankind out of his generosity, without having any foul motives. Then the language of kindness can be seen or heard by the blind and the deaf also.

 I and my friend, usually discuss this topic of kindness during our conversation and try to get an exact idea of this kindness, It is felt very keenly at that time when we notice that beggars on signals, pavements, or at religious places are refused help and if anybody tries to know the reason from those who have refused alms, they provide their logic for refusal what I also agree,  they are of the view, that if these people are helped without any labor then it is certain that they would get habitual of not working, and the more they are provided alms the more they get dependent on others. It's very true,

I do feel like it, if these people are given unnecessary help and support then they will become lazy and never work to manage the needs of their life. If any person starts getting things easily, free without working, or pressure, he never likes  to work because it is a natural human instinct.

 One day my friend told me that a few years back she read about an incident, where a beggar had died, and after his death, it was discovered by the people around him, that he had left a lot of property of different value behind him. 

I was so amazed to hear all this, and that day I started thinking about, in what manner the help should be provided so that it never seemed to be worthless. I realize, any kind of help or support should be based on circumstantial evidence rather than societal parameters. From that day I made up my mind, if anybody requests any kind of help, first I shall try to make out why that person is not working. if that person is healthy and can work.

 I would try to know the exact reason for his not working if It is acknowledged that he wanted to earn his things in the past, but the adverse circumstances blocked his path of gaining new options.

 When the truth regarding his previous chapters of life gets disclosed and gives the impression that even today he is interested in working, he would be provided help. They should be Suggested a  specific work that can be easily linked up with his livelihood.

 I remember that last year I came across a lady outside one of the religious places, and she was requesting help, she was a lady 19 or 20 years old I asked her why she had not been working, she could take a job as a helper in anybody's house. Suddenly I noticed a newborn in her arms, and the baby was clinging to her.

 After a long pause, she answered, the child wouldn't let me work and she might not be hired as well due to just this one-month-old. I wished to know more about her when I asked about her family,  whatever had been told it was heart moving, she lived in a small village and it was flooded last year she had lost everything not only her house but her husband also. the entire village had given a deserted look.

 That natural calamity not only swallowed up all the good and optimistic approaches to the life of the villagers but leave them as the victim of their fate. She wanted to save her child and decided to move to the nearby city since then she was looking for help. She was living on different pavements. 

Neither she had got shelter nor food till now. Anybody could easily notice those gloomy eyes, I also glimpsed the same, and decided to provide the little move, to help in her suffering. I knew a lady who was running an NGO for this kind of people, I took her there. She urgently arranged food for the mother and milk for the baby. The mother thanked me with her folded hands, and I came out, with the feeling of doing something good.

As we know that there is too much negativity around us but always keep yourself squeezing so that your contribution, must be the least. I know many of you are unable to understand what I mean to say, believe me, I don't mean to say that we should stop helping people, no, not at all. 

Because  If we stop healing and supporting each other, it will not be more than a soulless life. We should be kind enough to everyone to prove that we are no more part of the ruthlessness.

Everyone is struggling over here for something or other. That's why we've got to be kind to each other, even when it's really hard to believe and you just don't know what to believe and what should not be, in this situation  I would like to suggest, you can be judgmental, but without getting prejudiced, because it gets difficult to tell that how the things and people should be looked at.