Today  I wish to tell you the story of two friends who are very close to each other but meeting is not possible because their existence in human life lies only in the absence of each other if they both try to become part of human life, so it is not more than confusion.

The importance of One's worth can be acknowledged or understood easily in another's absence, they know if by chance they get united, not only their worth but even their existence will remain at stake,  so the two friends have decided that they will not try to meet.
These two friends play a significant role in setting a human life. They both extensively affect life, and this truth can never be denied that the behaviour and decisions of mankind reflect clearly how much humans are getting affected in the presence of any of the two .
These two friends make human beings learn or understand certain lessons of life by providing different experiences. The two companions don't like to rule over mankind but they know it is merely their presence which decides the nature of human vitality.

So their accord paves the way to maintain flexibility in our life. When we suffer a great loss and get badly hurt we begin to miss the elation and joy of life.But the lessons that are experienced whether moments are sad or happy make us understand the worth of sadness and happiness in life.

Pleasure is very seldom found where it is sought. Our brightest blazes are commonly kindled by unexpected sparks. —Samuel Johnson
Which pleasure or pain influences us the most becomes visible in the way we lead our life. Now you people can easily guess these two friends, are none other than pain and pleasure.
It is tough to define both whether it is pleasure or pain we always look for bliss in life. Several people try to understand the secret or an idea of happiness from the different poets or the various theories of philosophers, but neither the fiction nor the facts furnish any answer.
Plenty of things can be applied to become happy, but the foremost thing, that has to be considered to gain happiness, 😌 should be, how you spread joy among people, rather than all the time expecting it from others.
When a person starts expecting more pleasure rather than spreading it, means paving way for sadness. If you wish to make yourself happy then try to cheer the people up around you. Whatever the circumstances you have to hold your spirit high.
It has been noticed that the joy of life becomes the source of a person’s smile and his smile becomes the source of people’s delight. So it is a type of skill that the more we practice the more we get trained.
Those who try to get an answer to what is happiness,? can never be satisfied. But those who wish to know how others can be made happy? will always remain elated.
We all have specific kinds of sadness or happiness within us, but which one should be selected entirely depends on the way you have trained.
There is nothing like perfect joy or sadness because it has been visualized that sometimes the happiest occasions are mixed with sad moments, and sad events mug up with the happiest moments.

We should understand that our life is full of pages and each page has got filled with different shades of colours.
Every colour has got its ideas or story to tell. . It is important to have a clearer understanding of pain and pleasure and should know how to cope with grief and elation as well.