I think all of us do believe in the sacredness of promises, and it is felt they should be fulfilled anyhow, but what, If a person gets entangled in that sort of situation in which he has left with no options except to break his promises now what should be done to deal with it?
A promise is a kind of commitment when a person declares or gives an assurance sometimes in words or sometimes merely in gestures the meaning of both, always remains the same.
It doesn't matter at all that person is using signs or words in taking the pledge, the thing that matters, at last, is only a person’s genuine intentions.
How genuine or competent he is at the time of giving assurance, will determine the worth and fulfilment of this pledge.
The need and importance of keeping one's word are strongly expected by that person, who has been promised, it happens because a person might have fixed his silver lining, around the assurances of that individual, and in this situation If the promises are not kept, you would not only lose the trust can also get stressed. If someone promises you something then it should be performed.
If a person knows the worth of his words, that have been given regarding any specific thing, then it must be performed, otherwise don't ever try to give word to anybody because the wound of false promises is not visible, but one who suffers gets shattered.
Always keep in mind that people neither forget nor forgive that particular person, who breaks his promises effortlessly.
It is said that immense value is added to your persona when all the things are at stake, and you try hard to keep your word because it is your responsibility to live up to the expectations of those, who are looking at you in the hope to gain a sure respite through promises you have made.
They might be your friends and relatives who are looking up to you as a source of joy and relief but believe me, they are not entitled to be ditched, and they should not be given.
If you wish to go on with good and strong connections, it gets essential to develop trust and conviction not only in you but also in the person who has been promised.
It has been strongly felt that a person with lies or false promises may move much ahead in the spurious world. But in the meantime, genuineness is left much behind knowingly or unknowingly he starts moving hand in hand with falsehood and loses all hopes to get back on the path of morality.
If a man follows the suitable path from the beginning till the end, It indicates that man doesn't need at all to prove anything to anybody In the journey of life.
All the directions that could make him on the way to truthfulness get blocked due to his negligence.
If you don't feel bad about the way you are going back from your words over and over again. Then these broken pledges give the impression of broken mirrors.
As the pieces of a broken mirror create many images of those who have held it, in the same way when the promises break, many snapped images of yours are created in the mind of that person, with whom the promises have not been Kept. People usually get confused that why the promises are not kept.
I would like to tell you that most of the time it is felt that the reason in the plurality of cases, remains the same, for which the promise has been made, and sometimes for the same reasons, it has not been fulfilled.
It is deeply meant, that the true feelings of a man get to reveal how he behaves with people, rather than what he utters in the crowd, in the same manner, the true character of man gets exposed, by those promises that have been kept Instead of how many of them are simply given. It is well said that ‘Actions always speak louder than words.
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