You don’t learn to walk by following rules. You learn by doing and falling over.”– Richard Branson

 Nowadays one question that is highly asked, and always looking for a better answer, that how positivity can be developed in children. 

It has been generally noticed, it is not tough to make children understand the exact importance of positivity but what types of words should be chosen to make them learn, it makes it difficult to this perception of positivity. 

The significance of words can never be underestimated, when the process of motivation is going on, the thing that should be kept in mind is how much the children understand the importance of words, that are told to make them optimistic. 

The selection of words can make a big difference especially when the words are being used to encourage children that how to manage high standards in pursuing their aims in life. These are the words that help to enhance the development of not only the children but the adults as well. 

Those who are inspired by positive thoughts are more likely to gain success and it can help the children more to make them realize their potential and encourage them to put in their best. 

At present, it has got essential due to the spurt of social media, and constant exposure to the celebrity culture has become a major threat to going with positive self-standards. 

Motivating children is the most important part of parenting if it is not taken care of at the right time can disturb or affect the life of all those who are around them. Parents must keep encouraging their kids to have better ideas or things. The children need to develop a positive mindset to acquire the best versions of themselves. 

A positive outlook is enough to make them responsible not only towards society but their thinking also. An optimistic approach will encourage them to be more social and enthusiastic.

Always try to make them understand that this world is full of tough competition but it will become the toughest to handle if they try to compete with others they will always remain under pressure stress can lead them nowhere, so make it healthy by creating the feeling of self-comparison. 

If they begin to compete with themselves things will not only get easy but better as well for them. It helps them to be positive and positivity opens many other doors of possibilities and these possibilities can take them to the path of success.

It is believed so, that the parenting of the child always remains at stake, the whence behavior of the child is good and decent the parents feel free from any kind of regressing situation they are neither blamed nor praised. But if the situation gets vice versa only parenting is questioned in many ways. 

Because it is felt that the seeds of goodness and dreams are sown in childhood so in case any kind of flaws are noticed people get judgemental and parents become the soft target. People begin to raise questions about parenting with ease. 

I don't find it correct, it is baseless to point fingers at the parents, who always provide excellent care for children and wish to see the best happen in the life of their children, then how they can be blamed for anything? 

I feel, despite this, if something goes wrong,  I feel, despite this, if something goes wrong, it might be happened due to certain circumstances, or other issues. Which gives the impression of negativity.

Parents must make their children familiar with the twist and turns of life in a way that they never try to run away from problems and difficulties and face them with courage and determination it can make a difference in their life, without ignoring the fact 'To err is human'. The habit of accepting mistakes should be developed, and keep working on them, to make them better. 

Try to convince the children with logic that God has created us like this, he has not chosen perfection for human beings, if he would have done so, then the words like anger, deception, sorrows, hate, cheating, contempt, enmity, and many more should have never been created. 

It reveals that God has not made us perfect even though, he also doesn't expect the same from us, if it is not so, then, why does a pencil need an eraser? perfection means without mistakes, When parents give the secret of going ahead, they should make their children realize what kind of activities should be chosen to create opportunities in life.

Nobody can mold children according to his/her wish. Even parents should not be expected to perform such actions, which might be proved unfair in building up their children's personalities. Children should not be treated as things or an item, things or items can be molded the way they are required but not human beings. The probabilities should not be fixed on human beings, because they are not made for trials and rehearsals.

“If you’re able to be yourself, then you have no competition.” – Barbara Cook