I have noticed that generally, parents like to prepare a smooth and manageable path for their children if they are affluent, they always like to do so. They don't want to see their children will go through any crucial and chaotic phase of life in the future. Parents always keep praying for their welfare it is become painful and intolerable to see their children in any kind of drastic situation. 


It is their pure love that makes them blind to the truth that has got the hidden message that life is a journey full of various types of challenges, and the way a person's strength and conviction take all these challenges decides what kind of life has been chosen to live in. It is suggested that nobody should try to plan anything according to desires if he/she doesn't have the capability and the guts to take up all the challenges with great courage and passion. 

As we know life is a good teacher, you merely have to analyze, how good you are as a learner! If you are a good learner you can easily get understand the opportunities that are hidden in form of different challenges. If you fail to understand the lessons of life that are provided through different experiences and if a person keeps doubting the lessons of life or whether in himself, then this distrust will work as one of the biggest obstacles. Because any kind of trust issues block the whole process of moving ahead to gain objectives.

Parents should understand the importance of lessons that life provides through various experiences. There is no doubt some of these experiences come out as hard-core challenges, and if the children can not be prepared for the multiple tasks or choices then even if the efforts of parents can not impound misfortunes to happen in life, then who will be held responsible for this unwanted situation? What are the parents supposed to do? 

In my opinion, nothing very special, the parents should shift their focus from preparing a smooth path for their children, there is no need to prepare a smooth path but they have to make their children so strong and courageous, so they become capable enough to beat any type of a challenge, it can help to prepare their path to success. Hard things in life enhance the level of confidence and patience as well.

Life should not be taken as a right. It is a reward in itself. A person remains blessed forever or not, it just depends on the way challenges will be taken in life. So it is the responsibility of elders to make the children realize that it is the easiest thing to give up but to accept the challenge and stay on it till challenges change into that instinct which can be noticed as your strength or potential. 


Someone who plans carefully before doing anything can hope for better results. He only has to set certain parameters for the things he is taking in hand. A person can be happy because things are under control or things easily get controlled due to happiness. It is a matter of thinking. 

A person‘s achievements make him happy or it is his pleasure that prepares the way for his objectives. If he decides himself regarding his goals the remarkable results will be noticed by others. If he leaves things to others to take decisions on his behalf then the results might be confusing.

Achievements of people make them happy or the happiness paves the way for their  objectives, it can be the point of discussion but in the whole process of attaining tasks, one thing should never be missed, that is to enjoy life. It is the most wonderful part of life. Now it is our liability that small joys should not be neglected at the cost of attaining something big.

  If you wish to achieve goals don’t ever try to set any kind of limitations on that, as for as your imagining power is concerned, sometimes imagination can help you to develop that process which can open several other doors to your destination. A strong-minded person always thinks of creating new things he never leaves anything on tomorrow what can be done today should be done right now.

If you have faith in yourself failures can not catch you up so easily because your passion and commitment will never allow disbelief as part of the journey to success. Your real character can be judged in both situations whether it is a success or in failures . 

If you are successful and a man of character never let it go over your head at the same time in failure your strength never allows you to lose your truce, it defines the competency that helps you to reach the top. Those who blame  Luck for their sufferings, means they are no more interested to change the situation. They keep blaming their luck, and most of the things get over for them, then there.