Last week, some of my friends came to see me , I was not feeling well so they wanted to cheer me up. I noticed, after some time they got involved in the discussion. Due to illness I was not the part of that discussion neither I was interested. But it could be easily understood that the topic of discussion was 'opinion' instead of fitness. Generally, we used to take fitness as a topic to begin the conversation, and it always remained one of the common and favourite for discussion.
If I recalled correctly, that day's conversation started on the same note, but surprisingly it went in another direction. They started arguing about life, its philosophy and how the great philosopher or thinkers of his time set their perspectives regarding life.
They were talking about the ideologies of the philosophers, some of them were of the view, that the theories of the philosophers were entirely based on the way they used to observe people and different things, and the idea of other friends was, that their opinions got developed from the various experiences of life that the philosophers went through, two of them, stood by that it was merely a combination of both.
All the friends had different perspectives and wanted to stand by, theirs. It could be inferred that a small discussion in no time, started getting big and hot. The volume of the sound which was automatically set by them on low mode, abruptly the volume of their tone got high and started piercing that certain mode of volume, then they could easily be heard outside because my aunt from the next room came over there to make them aware of, her mother's resting time, and asked them to maintain silence.
It seemed, that the discussion went astray no one had the substantial points to go with it, it appeared that they were just beating about the bush and it was no more than a wasting time, it was the time to make them realize, to postpone it for another day when things could be started again, with untouched and innovative ideas and it would be expected to end in fruitful outcomes.
Now I would like to say, something about framing opinion, which matters till it is pure or unbiased, whether it is about you or the people around you. Having an opinion is not an important task, but it is crucial one it becomes the way you voice your objectives without getting affected by the nonsense that other people have gathered about you. I think a person who knows how to tackle the opinion of others could manage anything and is capable enough to become a great achiever in his life.
I think any opinion that is formed of you or whether you frame an opinion regarding others should be full of inspirational or constructive ideas because any kind of negative and destructive stand against anyone or anything could create several obstacles in the path to success. When anyone forms an opinion without perceiving its significance or the way it creates an impact it keeps hanging between knowledge and ignorance.
If you allow a person to enter your personal space through the outdated views that he forms regarding you, can disturb your thought process but when one is allowed to enter that particular space. He does not only spoil your thinking but soon the whole inner space of yours will be captured also.
Undoubtedly, every opinion can never be categorised in the class of great, all opinions can not be ranked equally in position because human personality is different from one another then how is it expected that their way of thinking will remain the same?
The doors of admiration and acceptance for any opinion could only be opened when logically it can be strongly contended to prove its authenticity. The logic and assertions should be so strong that can help to win supporters in favour of one’s opinion because if it is not believed will never be applauded too.
The journey of success can never be spirited and concentrated if it has been started by considering the concepts of other people, while it should be fuelled with your conviction, courage, and important competitive spirit. What do you want from yourself it should be mattered the most in your life instead of How do other people want to make you do?
If a person is full of confidence, courage, and taking his mission with a winning spirit, and knows well how to plan and execute those ideas into reality, it will help him to prepare for a string of success, and then, believe me, there is no looking back. Because mostly the future outcomes of any person depending the way he used to keep himself rated earlier.
If a person is true to himself he can never be get victimised by others' malicious opinions. he never lets people evaluate or analyse his personality by using their filthy opinions regarding him. It depends on how gutsy you are to determine the further advantages and opportunities in life and the manner they will be tackled by you.
If you are the sort of person who believes to make use of his intelligence and mechanism to complete tasks, then your decisions are always based on the way you use to think about things and people as well. A person neither expects nor lets people allow to frame their opinions about him, those who are not even connected to him.
Indeed somewhere he is sure of his capabilities of coming out as a winner, it doesn't make any difference whether the situation is grim or completely under control. But the path that has been chosen to walk is entirely based on your opinion. At least if you have decided the tasks and full efforts are made, as per your intellect and vision, then It should not let you feel down.
Whenever a person feels he is running out of thoughts it means to take a break, which can be beneficial for his peace of mind. As it is said, sometimes cropping up no opinions is better than having useless opinions.
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