Why do people hate? Could this negativity and such a drastic feeling of hatred get developed without any resentment? Whenever this type of question is raised in discussion the mixed responses, turn the discussion into an argument. Sometimes these strong reactions are just enough to alarm you that stop this assertion as soon as possible before the whole thing converts into strong scorn and later on it might pave the way for hating.
But what is usually felt by the people, a few of the ideas can be taken to analyse this negativity. It can be assumed that people think that somewhere they had gotten badly hurt earlier with certain issues, and at that time they did not have enough courage or power to take a stand over the issues then and there.
This gutlessness of theirs, awakens all the evils and misconceptions, that were lying buried in the corner, under the covers of goodness within them. If a person doesn’t take notice of this type of transformation, evils not only begin to raise their heads but also become so active within them that could easily crush their possibility of moving ahead with goodness and positivity.
When a person starts saying that he is good and will never let hate occupy its space within him. It has been noticed that when a person begins to repeat anything constantly it not only becomes a part of his life but tries to develop a different kind of art of living which helps to convince you the way you feel about yourself.
A strange chapter of life gets open the constant chanting of positive lines takes up the level of faith, and this belief compels others to show the same conviction in their faith. If you are not convinced about your positivity and genuineness then It is almost next to impossible to make others believe the way you believe.
We should understand this common fact that neither we are the angels nor the devils, we are just humans and move forward with the most important thing, which is our genuineness, which plays a key role in making things happen the way it is expected to occur, it also depends on that how humbly you are ready to accept the most inevitable fact of life that as a human we all make mistakes and this fact can not be changed anyhow, that the mistakes were there, these are, and these will always remain as a part of life.
The power of self-realization simply makes you understand these mistakes should not be repeated for better results. A person always gets lenient about his mistakes but if the mistake has been made by somebody else then intense or weird reaction could easily be seen , he starts disliking that person, in some cases it turns into a hostility, it seems that he is an angel who never makes a mistake.
We should understand this common fact that neither we are the angels nor the devils, we are just human who are filled with many different kinds of emotions, love and hate are two of them.
Hate is a dangerous one and sometimes spreads like fire and burns everything that comes into its axis. The biggest blow is made to your wisdom and paves the way for the repression of your logical way of thinking, which is required to distinguish between good &bad, right & wrong.
One who hates always wishes, or even thinks, worst for that person against whom he has the feeling of anger or resentment he never cares about the outcome of this mean approach. In the beginning of anything you don't realize how difficult it will be gotten to come out of this resentment. When a person begins to believe in forgetting and forgiving it will open the doors of divine love or feeling.
Those who believe to keep nourishing this feeling of hatred, in creating hardship for others, somewhere in ignorance forget what kind of ditch of troubles they are preparing for themselves.
These people never realize the truth that one day, they might have to pay the heavy price in the later stages of life because it has been heard from the elders, the one who digs a pit for others, unknowingly gets tumbles himself into it.
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