What do you need to be happy in life? Treasure of health, a treasure of wealth, a treasure of good friends, or instead of this the simple routine of introspection should be followed in regular intervals to know the exact reason for unhappiness because as a fact, happiness lies within you. You are simply on the wrong track if you are trying to search for it outside, whether in the people or the things. It is just a waste of time. 

The happiness will come from within you that surely help to bring a confident smile to your face. It doesn't mean at all that the treasure of health, wealth, and friends don't have any role to play in the journey of man‘s life. They play a significant role in enhancing the things that man already has got and happiness is one of them.

Sometimes it has been noticed when a person is feeling low in any phase of life then the extreme need is felt to acquire little more happiness to lift his mood. Now the question is there how this happiness can be attained it entirely depends on not only the way things are taken but how these things are acted upon, which decides the level of one's happiness. Your way of thinking also affects very much to the strategy of happiness. 

If the motivations of happiness are fixed on the big targets without analysing their pros and cons, like the accumulation of large amounts of money, earning name and fame. Sometimes it has been experienced that real happiness lies in the whole process and those strategies that have been chosen to make the targets on the path of success. The thrill of applying creative ideas is enough to take the person to the next level.

Last week, l came across an old friend of mine, we almost met after more than two years. I noticed many changes or bigger transformations, which could be a better word to understand her behaviour. She used to be a very difficult person to understand, because she had got the habit of complaining, always started the conversation with a complaint, it could have been against anyone, friends, neighbours, colleague,  sometimes even parents. 

That's why one of her friends, used to call her the box of grievances’. I still remember that incident, for which this friend made address her like this, one day when she entered the gate. in great annoyance, with a complaint about??? "how can He do this", who says? "He is very caring and can never see anyone in a drastic situation", and " Do we worship Him, to create all this fuss in our lives ",?

The last sentence made us aware this time humanity was not at stake but the creator Himself,  It was nothing new for us, the same very old and familiar frowning 🙁 upon her face, that we were used to, but got completely amazed, this time it was not a human but God Almighty. 

I would like to mention what exactly happened that day, when she moved out from her place there was no sign of clouds, the sky was clear, so she decided to go out in her favourite white attire. But no sooner did she reach the bus stop than the sky got covered with black clouds, with lightning and thunder the tarnishing rain started. Her white attire had got big black patches of mud and water. 

That's why the reaction was so shocking. But now the amazing change was visible, the conversation was going on for more than three hours but she didn't complain about anything, and most important the way she was laughing during the conversation. It was enough to make that person startled, who had known her for many years.

This time she noticed, the explanation I was looking for. She laughed heartily and said, “I am no more a box of grievances”. Her merry laugh was another, shock because in those days even a broad smile could not be imagined on her face. I was very much interested to know the reason for this transformation. 

She told that after marriage she realised, that if she wanted to live the rest of her life happily then things or people, must be accepted with flaws, there is nothing without flaws in this world.  When we as friends used to tell her all these things but she didn't pay heed at that time. But now I am very happy for her. 

We should not give that power to anyone or anything, which could provide directions to those emotions, that play the biggest role in coping with the different characteristics or ways of our life.

 If the spirit of happiness gets occupied only in the big events of life, then the distance that will be created between a person and happiness even can not easily be measured through human calculations. So never let the joy of trivial moments go, without making them a memory of a lifetime.

It is a simple fact of confidence, for those who want to lead a carefree life ever after. I would like to suggest, don't ever try to encourage yourself to get envious of the things, others have got and you don’t have. This jealousy somewhere harms you badly by polluting your thought process.  It can not only spoil your thinking but even crush or repress your vision and mission under the feet of your jealousy.  Try to be satisfied with whatever you have in hand today, don't ever let it slip from your hand. 

If it happens it will affect your tomorrow negatively. So be careful be active and keep thinking that what steps should be taken to become the part of those whom you consider superior to you, rather than thinking how to pull those people down from the top of the stairs with whom you are jealous.