Many of you think that life is a big problem, so it cannot be sorted out the way it is expected. While others believe that it is a wonderful experience which helps you to learn different lessons to make life better. 

It has been noticed that for those who neither try to understand these lessons nor give importance to following their path in the light of these lessons, life always seems like a big problem to them. 

The experiences of life provide valuable insights into how to navigate the ups and downs of life smoothly. Unless you apply the lessons that have been learned through experience, you will continue to be entangled with one issue or another in life. 

If you fail to understand this fact, you have nothing to prove to anyone except yourself. The impact or outcome of your decisions and convictions depends entirely on how efficiently you have learned various lessons from experience so far. 

There is nothing in the world that can be imagined as completely wrong, but by chance, if you get involved with the wrong person, thing, or situation, that time should not be wasted thinking about, what is wrong, who is wrong, how it is wrong,  why they are wrong. 

Once you begin to dive into the ocean of all these irrelevant questions without putting positive efforts into them, as time passes, it will prove their irrelevancy and a waste of time as well. Because the relevance of anything lies in its success rate; the higher the success rate of something, the more relevance it will add to your life.

The power of relevance is enough to make anyone realize that never let others make decisions for them, whether it is good or bad the main issue is, that your will should be supreme, and you ought to be well aware of this fact. that you are free to choose whatever you like. First of all, you have to understand how to say ‘No’ not only to people but the options you don't even feel to consider. Don't ever get skittish about losing them.

As we all know the needs of life in a  better way, rather than those who wish to take decisions for us on their understanding. Always keep analysing yourself through introspection and the outcome that will be gotten from depths of different emotions probably providing a chance to observe your real self.

Don't ever leave that window open within you, through which people around you can easily peep and try to damage your sense of worth, making you feel undeserving of the goals you aspire to achieve. 

You must understand that the more you allow people to invade your privacy, the more uncertainties you will encounter in the future. It is important to be rational and recognize not only the importance of your own desires but also the extent to which freedom should be granted to others.

Life can be a wonderful carpet, but one thing must be kept in mind: the threads used in weaving should be an interesting combination of self-motivation, wisdom, courage, determination, strong insights, good ideas, and understanding. They should be synchronized fairly to be reflected profoundly in the various experiences of humans.