I frequently think about what kind of steps should be taken to motivate students, especially those who usually prefer to sit with different perspectives of life on the backbenches in the classroom. These students have their way of understanding and confidence. They are full of innovative ideas. When the frontbenchers provide the usual answer or bookish answers, often the most unexpected and accurate answer comes from the back


It has been noticed several times that generally, the front row tries to make a strong impression on the teachers. They usually do many things in hopes of remaining in the good books of their teachers. Their behavior and performance easily show this. Most of their actions are done to prove their point of view and they keep focusing on “how to make a beginning” and making grand claims regarding the outcomes.

The backbenchers have got something hidden within, so they never feel to prove anything like this. They usually get inspired by their thoughts, notions, skills, self-confidence, intelligence, courage, and ambitions. Most students know well that they are capable enough to create their own book, to write their names with gold. 

They don't believe in making any kind of influence and impression on anyone, like the students of other ways of thinking. They always like to go with their beliefs, either to lead or better to walk all alone because somewhere they have at the back of their minds that those who move with the crowd disappear. 

If they do the same, they may not only lose their worth but vision also, so they don't want to be a part of these kinds of struggling parameters. They never intend to make big claims regarding their ways of beginning, but they are confident enough in how to gain more and better outcomes by finishing. This fervent attitude helps them grow more in their aspirations and acclamation.


They earn name and fame in their respective fields. However, the worst can also be seen when they deliberately choose the wrong track to gain success. It is observed that this kind of joy can be attained and consumed easily, but it will also be finished soon over time. Their talent must not be underestimated. This whole process of gaining success automatically seizes their future progress and growth. Because it has been noticed that with this mindset, nobody cares about the journey; everybody wants to be assessed based on the ultimate result. 

 Almost all the students move forward with a mission, and they do not give up until their goals are achieved. I would like to suggest that life has given them many opportunities, and they should know how to make the best use of all these by proper dealing or grabbing. If they keep paying attention to people of different perceptions, they might get confused, especially about what should be chosen and how it can be implemented.

If they lose their right path, they not only go astray but their attitude may make them move into the labyrinth of conflict and confrontation. I would like to suggest that they should always try to stick to reality or keep checking the ground reality at regular intervals. Because the combination of facts and fortunes will never let you get carried away, even in adverse circumstances or uncontrolled daydreaming. 

 If you don't have an idea of your talent as well as interest, it indicates that neither an appropriate goal is set nor can be achieved. You should be aware of your strengths and weaknesses, and if you want to be successful, there's no need to try to work on your weaknesses; always try to improve your strengths to get the desired results in the future. 

It is said that we all are born with certain excellence; we only have to recognize that area of hidden talent in ourselves and put all the efforts to work on that particular area for the proper growth of our personality. As we all observe, our thinking or outrage sometimes reluctantly becomes the cause of pain and suffering not only to our near and dear ones, but to those individuals who don't ever try to hurt anyone intentionally, but it happens.

They start putting up different questions to themselves about what, why, and how but all these questions most of the time remain unanswered because as we all know finding the answers to these questions becomes a big riddle in itself that can not be unraveled so easily. It is that unexpected activity which can not be recouped effortlessly, it becomes obvious what we are supposed to do to make endeavors for the removal of negligence or ignorance.

We should understand that anger and irritation generally pave the way for that sort of behaviour which has become the cause of pain and suffering of the people around us. It usually happens unintentionally so when we get normal we start feeling bad and try to forget that misbehaving, but the people who have suffered due to our misbehaving how can they forget? it becomes difficult for them to forget that incident of the past which stings them a lot.  

I would like to tell you something regarding anger. It is a psychological response of an individual. It is said that anger is also felt in the same manner as happiness, love, sorrow, and hatred can be experienced. So it should be taken as a part of existence. If anyone says that they never get angry, it indicates their duplicity, and the question arises: how can anyone go with fakeness? 

As humans, we do accept that our whole life depends on our behavior, situations, circumstances, and mostly the actions that receive reactions from others. So it is not about right and wrong; it is all about our strengths and weaknesses and the way they should be dealt with, mainly when your bad temper increases to such an extent that it starts affecting not only your own life but also enough to spoil the happiness of the people around you.

It has been noticed that some people are usually not ready to accept that they are short-tempered but  It can be witnessed that anybody can make them angry on petty issues, and they lose their control over themselves. If you are unable to curb the menace of all the negative feelings then that day is not too far when intentionally your near and dear ones become the victim of your unrestrained negative emotions, and when you find yourself in that situation which will lead you nowhere, except in lamenting. At that time you have to introspect yourself and find out the reason for getting angry or losing strength even on trivial issues. 

If any vices of yours reach extreme and become difficult to tackle it signals your weakness.  As we all know life is not a bed of roses it is not as wonderful as nectar to drink It is a mixture of sweet and sour flavors, and you ought to take care and work hard to overcome all your negative feelings and generate more positivity. It will benefit in improving not only your attitude but also enhance your power of understanding.

It may help to decide in favor of those people whom you want to save from your anger and irritation. The reaction of the people who come across short-tempered individuals can be noticed easily because they start maintaining distance from these types of people, and after some time they are avoided by their relatives also. They don't want to be a part of that irritation and insult, which will come their way due to some or other weakness of others. It is the need of the hour to take a pledge to come out of this. 

If you want to change yourself as a better human being, then you should take a pledge that you will never lose your calm no matter how drastic the situation might be. Your resolution will certainly open the doors to many solutions. These suggestions should not always be taken as a way to flee from troublesome situations, but sometimes it is a wise decision if a person tries to save their kin from the heat of their undue response. Light moments and troublesome situations are a part and parcel of life. 

There is no need to get embarrassed whatever the situation may be; stop blaming others for the agonies you have to take certain measures to develop mutual respect and understanding to realize the worth your strength will add in life. Now you must be thinking what should be done to come out of these wrong notions? 

When individuals seriously start working on their weaknesses, then it might be controlled. It is only their willpower that can help them in sorting out the problems related to their negative feelings. If you want to change yourself as a better human being, then you should take a pledge that you will never lose your calm how drastic the situation might be.