Day before yesterday was 'Mother's Day.' I was near theflorist shop when a man came and asked for a bouquet,but the price was a little higher than expected. 
It seemed the man was doing it just for the sake of it rather than outof love and care for his mother. I found it very strange.Who was compelling him to get a bouquet for his mother? Only his good gesture was enough to make his mother smile.
Being a mother, she knows you well because she caneasily understand you, so any kind of ostentatious behavior will surely be noticed by her. However, she will never show any emotions as she doesn't wish to hurt her children. We should always try to be real and honest with our mother because we do not have the ability to hide anything from her.

Ann Jarvis, a founder of 'Mother's Day', didn't want to celebrate the day in the way people have gotten used to celebrating it. I am sure all of you there feel the same; it must not be like that because a lady, being a mother, performs a great job and deserves more than ostentatious activities. It is not just for a single day; 24x7 she keeps performing without getting tired of her routine, no matter how challenging the things and situations are! 

I feel it is not merely about celebrating the way people used to celebrate other days, and somewhere this mindset of people opens many doors of profits. The fact is, things related to mother always remain close to the heart, whether she is my mother or anybody else. 

It is all about feelings; the importance lies in what we feel for our mother rather than how it should be celebratedSo it is very evident that whenever things get commercialised, it means the head is going to rule over the heart; from that moment, the feelings begin to get suppressed.the feelings of love ,care, reverence and admiration that we have got for our mother. 

I think it is not only about a single day we are supposed to show a kind of gratitude in every moment for the lady who goes through a lot being a mother she deserves much more than candles,flowers, and balloons. It is not at all about  to create a sensational cosiness it is intended that  a soothing comfort zone should be created where she breathed freely and helps her in throwing out those tiring and seductive pressure and started  playing game with her emotions 

when she decided to play a role of mother and it continues till now , so it is a duty to  create that kind of comfort zone where she should  be made feel that she doesn't need wings to fly high, the care and love of her children is more than enough to make her fly up in the sky.

It is a fact, and we all agree that the journey of a lady has never been free from ups and downs, but her unwavering faith in overcoming challenges creates boundless courage that helps her chase her dreams. It is observed that, in comparison to her counterparts, she suffers a lot, especially after marriage. Expectations of compromises are placed on her to follow accurately.


 I would like to share a story of a lady who has gone through a lot and how she faced difficulties with courage and dignity. The kind of confidence that lady possessed was enough to puzzle anyone, and I was not an exception. I decided to ask how true it was that if dreams were dreamt without conditions, she would not have been as satisfied as she was. she faced difficulties  with courage and dignity.

The kind of confidence that lady had, was enough to make anybody baffled, and I was not an exception. I decided to ask how far this statement was true that if the dreams were dreamt with certain conditions, she would not have been satisfied the way she was. 

She started to give an account of her life, which was very inspiring indeed. So, I have decided to share with you people as well. She lived in a small village where her father had a small piece of ancestral land on which he used to work hard to manage the needs of the family. 

As she was the eldest of her three siblings - a brother and a sister - they were studying in the government school. She was just 16 when her parents decided to get her married. She didn't want to get married so early. She opposed and asked her parents to let her complete her studies, but they refused and suggested that she could continue her education after marriage with the assent of her parents-in-law.

She knew it was not possible when her parents were unable to understand her feelings. But how could it be expected from others, she disclosed. Before marriage, in her childhood, she often dreamt of being a teacher. But the denial of pursuing her education was not only by her parents but also by her in-laws. That day, the idea of doing something different in life, becoming independent, got shattered. 

They wanted her to be a homemaker, with no need to think about other factors of life. Her husband was a mechanic and worked in a garage in a nearby town. He and his parents were part of the family. His father was a farmer, so the needs of the family could be easily managed. When the persuasion of her education was refused, it made her realize life is not all about dreams or the way it was thought to be lived. It was about remaining comfortable in any way. She knew that life was about challenges, struggles, weaknesses, and surrenders.

If a person was not ready to take challenges, could never prepare for struggle, and would get scared of taking decisions in time then the fear made him weak and in this weakness somewhere a person got compelled to surrender, and the same thing happened to her. That day she swore she would never take her dreams seriously,  and always would try to be focused on actions rather than herself.   She had been married for four years, and they had two daughters. Her mother-in-law kept censuring her all the time because she had a strong desire for a baby boy instead of a girl child.  

When her second daughter had taken birth the mother-in-law got very annoyed even though a sort of loathing could be seen easily in her behaviour toward her. But the lady had different ideas. She stopped paying attention to her mother-in-law’s denunciation.  She made up her mind that what kind of upbringing would be given to her daughters. 

She wanted to educate them without barriers or any kind of inferiority complex. The pressure in the family helped her to get stronger and more committed. At the time of her daughter's admission to school, as usual, her mother-in-law was totally against it. 

She did not get any sign of cooperation from her husband either. They were putting pressure on her by saying that there was no need to send the daughters to school, but she didn't pay heed and admitted them into the school. Both the girls were good not only in their studies but in sports also. Her elder daughter wanted to be a teacher, and the younger one wished to be a police officer. But time cannot be held. The girls were growing pretty doubtful regarding their plans for further studies. 

They knew their grandmother, who was so traditional and old-fashioned, would never allow them to go out of the village so easily for further studies. The girls were analyzing everything, except for the fire the mother had within her. 

It is my observation that whenever the children are entangled in any problem, the mother turns up with definite solutions or reprieve. So that lady was doing the same for their daughters. One day they asked their mother how she remained so calm and confident. 

The day had come to prove how strong she was because her elder daughter had turned 16, and the grandmother had started looking for a suitable match for the granddaughter. The family was in favor of getting the elder one married as soon as possible. The mother opposed and warned the family that her daughters wanted to achieve something in life. 

They had set certain goals for themselves, and after achieving their goals, they might settle down in their lives. She further said she was compelled to get married at an early age, but she would not let history repeat itself. Her mother-in-law and husband got angry and were treated very badly by the elders of the family. But she was extremely committed to her daughters' progress in the future. She decided to leave her husband's house and walked out with her daughters.

Then she had to find a job to make both ends meet. She started working in the school as a helper. The toughest journey of life had started. Her elder daughter also provided private tuition to the students. The destination was far but quite visible. She had a firm faith that nothing was impossible. Conviction and courage could make a difference to anyone at any time, making up her mind to support her daughters in any way and standing like a rock in all the decisions of her daughters. 

The two girls had won the laurels and made their mother proud by attaining their goals. Her elder daughter is a professor in one of the universities, and the second one is working in administration. A great bond of trust and confidence had been developed between the mother and daughters. Their mother’s conviction, hard work, and the right decision at the right time made them lead their life the way they desire. 

It is a remarkable journey of a lady once who was not  strong enough to take a stand for herself, the way she had taken a stand for her daughter's future can be an inspiration for any mother in the world. If the role of a mother is estimated, it seems the toughest one to understand but the easiest to share a great bond of care and unconditional love. Undoubtedly, she is a wonderful source of inspiring ideas that fill us with strength and courage. It is not hyperbolic at all when she is called a superwoman. We usually grow up with her image of a multitasking woman, so many of us consider her as a supermom as well. 

'Mother's Day is merely a celebration without strong feelings of gratitude towards mothers'

mothers day is not merely a celebration it should be a strong feeling of gratitude towards mothers It is very important to understand the significance of how to show gratitude to mothers. That day we realise the worth of a mother doesn't lie just in the celebration of a single day, but it should be every moment the whole year in the same way. 

This not merely helps to create a comforting environment for the mothers but will also become a priority where they can feel overwhelmed with joy, support, and unconditional love. Mothers don't need wings to soar high; the care and love of their children are more than sufficient to lift them up in the sky.