This is the ultimate truth of life that it co-exists in the shadow of death. Life can be short or long but one should not forget that one day it will end. It has been noticed how mortality surrenders its soul in front of immortality. Normally, it causes a lot of pain and suffering to people so they become very emotional after losing their loved ones.  Just as we all have come to know the harsh fact that death is certain, and we all will come to it whether it is a sudden death or after a long illness but then again, no one can claim to easily solve the mystery of death.

A person always expects support and help from the people around him so that it becomes a little easier to deal with the difficult times of crisis and sorrow.  As it is a universal fact, it is natural and inevitable for any person. That is why various methods are found to come out of practical situations.  It has been seen many times that people provide more comforting and inspirational thoughts to their loved ones, which help in bearing the pain of grief.  We should accept death as a part of life. Both of them work together on their axles and it has been felt that each of them has a hidden desire to gain control over the human heart.

It seems that they both are enchanted with the sound of beats from the heart. Every time these beats fill life with more energy and an enthusiastic approach to all living things.  Life not only gives joy to people but also inspires man to work tirelessly to set goals and fulfill them.  It has been seen that death, being hypnotized, suddenly tries to take everyone under its control and if death comes in a decisive form, whether it is suddenly or after a long illness, life has nothing to do much other than surrender herself over to icy hands.  It does happen, as we know death is inevitable but sometimes, if death doesn't come in a decisive mood then leaves humans with some mortal signs, these signals will be seen in various forms, such as heart attack, accident, and various injuries with a narrow escape.


Life instructxs us that goals should not be aimed to live forever, the goal should be created in a way that will remain in the world forever. It is the thing that compels you to think of the depth of life rather than the length of life. Your inner strength always encourages you to live a life full of your conditions, while your outward courage only makes you fearful and often compels you to surrender. If you sincerely wish to achieve anything, anyway keep in mind to start all these planning for today only because tomorrow can merely be found written in the books of labyrinths. 

Your achievements should be like that which must be enough to create those kinds of ripples that never let death swallow up your existence of attainments which has become possible through your hard work. It rarely matters how a man dies, but how his life is spent matters the most. The worth of life can only be estimated when we accept the existence of death. Always live life completely, actually in the same way you want to live, and let it help to organize the spirit that considers death just as the next adventure, and nothing more than that. 

Death is not the end of everything, you can live until you are not forgotten by your kindred and this idea makes a man rest in peace. Nobody can escape from death. It is the final destination of man. It is taken as testimony that people like to talk of heaven and wish to be there forever,  but no one can understand how it could be made possible, without departing from this mortal world.

The people who take life and death both as a challenge. It indicates to them that they are not supposed to waste the most precious thing in life, which is time. Life tells them how to live and let others live too.  Those who follow this simple idea of honesty and righteousness, always like to go with their hearts. Such people can never be harmed, neither in life nor after death.

 "Life is for the living. Death is for the dead. Let life be like music. And death a note unsaid". Langston Hughes 

The most important thing is that all human beings should understand how to take care, love, and respect the people around them. If we treat ourselves well, then without any doubt we will continue to be a wise motivator for others. It is a simple fact of life that if someone understands the importance of good habits, then he will not only try to make them a part of his life but also if he notices those good gestures in someone else, then he would also like to appreciate them. People usually remain confused regarding the two most prominent perceptions of life; sometimes it gets difficult for people to make equations between these two: forget, and forgive. Because forgiving a person for the specifically unfair thing that has been done or said is wrong in your opinion. But still, it genuinely felt like forgiving is the ultimate way of showing affection and care.

The path of purity is achieved by forgiving.  It makes you realize that you can control hatred, anger, and stress through the magical images of forgiveness.  This sounds very simple but is quite difficult to implement.  As we all believe that the mind should always be focused on the present and the future, hence it is advisable to forget what you did in the past because it does not make your present a part of the future. That is why it is not a good idea to keep running after a problem that not only destroys your thought process but also makes you feel worse about completing your tasks.

Those who wish to proceed onward would never like to stick themselves with the musings or mishaps of the past. If a person doesn't try to come out from the bitterness of the past then It becomes impossible to make the events of the present enjoyable. As we all know the past can never be changed so you have to leave with an option that has to be chosen to help you in coming out from the adverse effects. It can be done when you see within yourself, the purity of essence never lets you down in the deepness of suffering. The only path that makes you out of this labyrinth of suffering is that attitude of forgetting and forgiving.

It is assumed that only your idiocy stops you from making moves in favor of forgiving and forgetting and forming a favorable impact or ideas. while sometimes it has been realized that wisdom also doesn’t encourage this.  If the wise make decisions in favor of forgiving then, they don’t like to follow the same idea of forgiveness. Forgivingness should be worn as a constant attitude instead of as a sign of weakness. It should not be ignored that it is the most precious gift of God, and that's why everybody doesn't have it except those who are blessed by Him with such a wonderful gift.

As long as a person keeps on working on his attitude of forgetting and forgiving, the vision of moving forward can never be at stake. If you are unable to develop the habit of forgiving it will occupy a permanent space in your mind and develop a specific mindset that can ruin your prospects of a better human being.  If a person makes any mistake it doesn't matter whether knowingly or unknowingly, he ignores it and moves ahead for improvement. If he can forgive himself, then why does he hesitate to forgive and forget the behavior of others?

If you don't forgive then retaliation is the thing that will be quite visible in your actions. People never realize the fact that forgiving makes you close to God. Try to develop a level of understanding that creates space within you for forgiveness.  This kind of nurturing helps you acknowledge the best part of other beings, it becomes your characteristic. If you don’t forgive, it means you are paving the way for your anguish. 

Never let anyone harm your spirit because this kind of degradation of spirit is enough to make you weak. It has been noticed that people usually take the side of forgiveness until they realize that they also have to excuse somebody.  We all can understand the importance of being compassionate and forgiving. If one is unable to leave his bitterness and hatred he always remains behind bars for ungratefulness. New beginnings can be made only when you open your heart for forgiveness. It becomes the greatest gift, not only for other humans but for you as well. 


Anger harms just you while forgiveness helps you to attain peace and happiness. I am sure, from today people around the world will be thinking of a new year resolution, I would like to advise you this year to try to choose forgiveness as your new year's resolution. Make ‘forget and forgive’ a motto of your life. If anyone follows this old saying, can enjoy not only healthy relationships but also live in peace forever after.

When we become close not only with our friends but also with our enemies, it proves how forgiving we are. Embracing this wonderful idea helps us understand that life is too short to go with conflicts and stress. If we sow the seeds of forgiving and forgetting, the fruit from this will not merely work to make our wrong perceptions clear and right, but this goodness will make God realize why we should be rewarded or favored in both worlds.