Don't let a critical attitude develop,it can spoil things

Introduction-:

In a world filled with aspirations and dreams, it can be disheartening to witness how easily people fall into judgment. Often, individuals voice their opinions without truly understanding the impact that their words can have on others. This is particularly true when it comes to young dreamers striving to achieve their goals; negative comments can shape their perspectives and lead to self-doubt. The journey of a student aspiring to join the armed forces illustrates this point vividly. Despite his passion and dedication, he faced discouragement from an acquaintance whose harsh criticism shattered his dreams. This incident not only highlights the power of judgment but also underscores the importance of resilience and self-belief in the face of negativity.

The Dangers of Judgmental Attitudes-:

I observe that people unwittingly get judgmental easily. They never try to infer that their judgment can create various quandaries in the life of other people. Sometimes their conclusion or verdict can establish those perspectives that are enough to crush the future plans of that person, who is looking forward with certain aspirations.

A Heart breaking Incident-:

I would like to share an incident. He was a student in class 12th. He had a dream to be an army officer. I got an idea of how passionate he was for his ambition. During the conversation, he used to tell me the process and procedures that he had to go through to become a part of his favourite pursuit. I guessed that he had gathered almost all the requisite information, which a person should have, to be a part of the armed forces. One day he was sitting alone in dejection and very depressed.

The Impact of Negative Feedback-:

He was completely heartbroken. I asked him the reason for his sadness and whatever was told it was heart-rendering. He told me that one of his acquaintances discouraged him by saying that neither his efficiency, skills, physique were according to the parameters of the forces nor he was so hardworking to make things possible for himself; this goal therefore could never be achieved. I was so puzzled to hear all this. I wanted to know who he was. By whom had he been given the right to pass this useless decision? This judgmental verdict of a common man changed completely the way of thinking of a boy, who was a bright aspirant. He was made to realize that he could not do this; it was not for him to do.

Resilience and Recovery-:

I asserted then from this, the existence of energy of the person got down and even came to an end. He started to believe he didn't have the capacity to gain all this. I do feel it should not be like this. After a long period of counselling, the boy got back to his ultimate goal. He started with high spirit, and it was enough to realize his dream in reality. Now he is a diligent, hard-working, and honest officer in the armed forces.

The Consequences of Indifference-:

It usually happens as we lead a normal life every day and have dreams that make ourselves move ahead; it all ends up before they even begin. Due to those statements that are made by different people indifferently, havoc can be created in one's life, but they least bother about it. If they don't worry about our spirits, then the question arises: why should we take their statements seriously? We should always move ahead with confidence and conviction.

The Path to Achievement-:

If you want to reach the apex of achievements, then you have to think about going one step ahead from the peak. It is very obvious that if you want to attain the top of success, then certainly we have to think a little further than that. Before making any attempt, you should shun the idea of thinking about its consequences, loss, and profits because it will make you feel you cannot do it or it is not your thing to do. If you begin to communicate with these people, they will make fun of you. Just ignore them and keep moving forward; there is no need to pay attention to these people and their useless statements. 

Overcoming Self-Doubt-:

If you remain in utter confusion, how can this be done? And you will ask yourself whether you will be able to succeed in this venture. Then now is the time for you to resolve that you can do this and you will show it by doing it. In this way, not only does the energy of the person increase, but also negative self-esteem ends. Always remember that if you do not stop yourself from being negative, then things can slip from your hands like sand.

Conclusion-:

Ultimately, our journey is often derailed by the unwarranted judgments of others. While it may be easy for people to dismiss our dreams and aspirations, it is crucial for us to prioritize our self-worth and stay committed to our goals. The story of the ambitious student serves as a reminder that we must cultivate our own confidence and push through adversity. We should learn to ignore the negativity surrounding us and instead focus on nurturing our dreams.

By shifting our mindset and embracing a spirit of determination, we can navigate through the complexities of life with purpose and strength. Never let someone else’s opinion define your capabilities. By believing in ourselves and maintaining our integrity, we can turn our dreams into reality, just like the young man who transformed his passion into a successful career in the armed forces.